It took me a while to find my friend’s house, and he wasn’t there. But I found his family. His wife remembered me after so many years, and we talked for a while. I could tell that I had interrupted her preparations (an important celebration was due the following week; the Kachinas were going to be send back to the mountains) so I told her not to mind me if she needed to go back to work.
Her son stayed chatting with me; he was sculpting a Kachina doll. Nobody was sure when my friend would return so I wondered what to do, and where to stay if I stayed overnight. He suggested to stay overnight at the campground, next to the cultural center, so I would be able to see his father in the morning, before 8 am. He should be home then. I decided to stay. I left them a copy of my book and went sightseeing:
The Campground, next to the Cultural Center
Again: The Road to Second Mesa
When I was on my way to Second Mesa a prairie dog was standing on the road resembling a scrubby tuft of grass. He didn’t move until it was too late for me to realize what the tuft of grass was, and he died under my right wheels. When I was crossing the road to take some of these pictures, I almost made the same mistake the prairie dog had made. I saw the car just in time to stop on my tracks, and I thought that the only difference between that prairie dog and me was that it wasn’t my turn yet. When my turn comes, I will join him. Life is just a process; there is no birth and death.
Next morning before 8 am, I went to find my friend. Apparently he was in another house, his son-in-law told me. He guided me there and left me to my own devices. As I approached the house, one of my friend’s daughters came out to do something. She didn’t answer my greeting, so I asked for my friend. She was plain rude then; she told me cuttingly that he was still in Flagstaff, and they didn’t have time for visitors. I excused myself. As I was leaving, I asked her to tell him that I had said hello. “I will tell him,” she said dryly.
The movie Chocolat came to mind, with Johnny Depp and Juliette Binoche. It is a movie about how traditions can dehumanize us and kill our spirit: A town plagued by domestic violence, neglect and just plain boredom is transformed by a magical woman.
“At the center of CHOCOLAT is a woman charged with special powers: Vianne Rocher, a mysterious outsider who arrives in the French village of Lansquenet to open a chocolaterie featuring luscious candies that can, in addition to tantalizing the tongue, cure lost hopes and awaken unexpected emotions.” This is a movie I can recommend.
I went back to take a picture of this quaint little store
But I found this young employee outside (he allowed me the picture), unable to get in because the owners neglected to inform him that they would be visiting a neighboring village for their traditional dances, and would open late. And I don’t mean to say that we should neglect our traditions, but maybe we all need to get a direct, stronger connection with Spirit, and forget about most of the pomp and bell-ringing. We might get to be more considerate with our fellow human beings then. What do you think?
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Hi Rio;
Great post, enjoyed your tails and thanks for sharing.
I hope to watch that movie Chocolat , I don’t usually watch movies.
Please tell when the books out.
Be Well My Friend
Lou
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Hey Lou! You will enjoy that movie. If you are talking about my book: The Eye of the Dragon: Stalking Castaneda it came out last November. I think you’d enjoy it. Take care! Rio
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Hi Mark! Thanks for visiting. Yes, presence is the most important thing.
Don’t forget to watch Chocolat when you get a chance, great movie.
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Hi Rio,
Sorry for taking so ling to reply but I had some computer problems.
You said:
“…but maybe we all need to get a direct, stronger connection with Spirit, and forget about most of the pomp and bell-ringing.”
I agree to the extent that if they interfere with our families well being and cordialities to our fellow man, they should be suspended until that time when family issues are more receptive. The reason is that we are in the here and now and that is the most important thing. IMHO
I will get to reviewing your book on Amazon soon. Have a good trip. 🙂
~ Mark Nelson – Prescott ~
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